Re: Sexsomnia

Vatsa,

I'm glad my email made you horny! It wasn't even some of my better writing :) And I like to think I'm hot in bed--I certainly have never gotten any complaints.

And I've only ever had two sexual partners. The guy I lost my virginity to (THAT was a wretched experience that is only good as a sad, but quite humorous, story) and my husband. This is true for my husband, as well. We'd both been in our previous relationships for about a year, and it was with the person we'd lost our virginity to, and my husband I met only a few months after we both had broken up with our previous partners. I never really thought I'd only ever have two sexual partners in my life but that's how it's turned out (so far).

But our sex has always been fantastic. We had an instant sexual attraction and spent most of the first month when we were dating talking about how we needed to wait to have sex and we barely managed to wait a month! Once we started having sex, we pretty much went at it like rabbits. I was doing a lot of ballet then, so we'd meet after dance class, shower together, have sex in the shower, have sex AFTER the shower, take another shower and so on and so forth.

It was actually a bit of a joke with our friends. We moved in together pretty quickly, and we lived in a little cottage, with friends living in the other cottages in the complex, and they would often come by the house and bang on the door, yelling at us to stop having sex already and come out and go drinking! One of our friends would even come to the window of our bedroom and start pounding on it, yelling at us that we are always having sex and get done with it, already!

I think one of our more memorable trysts was at a party at a friend's house. It was a pool party, and they had a hot tub (it was actually at the friend's parents house because kids our age don't have cool houses with pools and hot tubs), so a bunch of us got into the hot tub and started drinking and fooling around. We fooled around to the point where we both ready to have sex right there in the hot tub but our friends were making us promise to not have sex right there in front of them, so we took off to look for a more private spot.

We ended up in the garage, with me sitting on the gardening table, trying to be quiet but not really doing a good job because we could hear our friends outside the garage, "Ohmigod! Are they having sex in the GARAGE?!" It was unbelievably uncomfortable, since I was on the gardening table there was dirt everywhere (thank goodness for the pool) but the sex was incredible.

So, I haven't had many sexual partners but I've had quite a few very wonderful sexual experiences.

Camella